So you recently signed up for a dating application and it is time to get the man/woman of your dreams. All of a sudden, you match with a good-looking female or a well-built guy, he starts asking a lot of questions and you are happily answering all of them. Then deep down you think you’ve met the one for you? Just before you give them a further answer, the random person might have learned how to chat with a new client as a yahoo guy and baiting you to deal with you.
To figure out how this works, I saw an advert online about a job that could pay me millions of dollars just by doing nothing. Then I responded to the advert and decided to play along. When the guy saw that I already knew his trick, he almost blocked me but I begged him for an interview and promised to even pay him to expose more about building rapport.
Chatting with a new client is difficult because they are suspicious about you, they don’t trust you, so they are waiting to pick up signals from your words, actions, and attitude. Becoming a pro means you can chat with a client and make them believe that you are anything you want them to think that you are. The guy is called Ijabo Wire and a National of Gambia.
He said:
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Beginners make many mistakes when they chat with a new client, such as responding early and fast to their messages, which creates suspicion in the client’s mind. Once a client becomes suspicious about you, nothing you can do will change their mind. So, it is essential to build the proper foundation, milk your clients well, and move on to another client.
So I figured out that they classified their clients into Male and Female and chat with them differently.
How Do you Chat with a New Male Client?
According to Ijabo, he said:
The fact is that there are several ways to chat with either a male client or a female client. These are different genders, and they reason differently.
1. Use a female profile.
No matter how cliché it sounds, men are often relaxed when a female profile hits them up with a message. They are always willing to give the female profile the benefit of the doubt while doing their investigation. As a female yahoo girl [see how to become a yahoo girl], you can always use your picture if you are beautiful.
So, first things first, you should have a female profile and a male profile to use depending on the situation you find yourself in.
2. Never double text your male Client
Women naturally, while texting, don’t double text the guys they are chatting with. Double texting means something like;
You: Hello, my name is Lynna from New Jersey; I just wanted to say you have a lovely profile picture.
Then after 2 mins and no reply, you go again…
You: Are you there???
This irks of desperation, and a man will know that it isn’t a woman behind that profile or that the woman behind it is desperate and wants something badly.
3. Don’t always reply immediately
Replying almost immediately at almost every time of the day shows that you have nothing going on in your life. This is a huge red flag should your new client starts to notice it while they chat with you.
If you are always available, it becomes suspicious. Your client will start asking for video calls, voice calls, and many other things to prove that you are legit.
4. Let him lead the conversation
Remember you are using a female profile, so you shouldn’t be the one leading the conversation – it would look suspicious. In many cases, you should only answer questions and ask back.
Seldomly you can come up with questions and stories so as not to sound boring. But always trying to push the conversation all the time is a red flag.
I asked him if he had a sample chat with a client. He refused to show me his own but decided to create scenarios for me.
A Typical Sample Chat with a New Male Client
You: Hello, I want to say I am intrigued by your bio. As much as I don’t know whether we might be a great match, I believe along the line, as we exchange a little information about ourselves, we can learn better.
My name is Lisa, and I am in New Orleans.
[Then wait for the client to respond; then, if the client answers, move to say…]
You: Well, I am not a fan of dating sites due to the high volume of uncouth males I come across here. Do you have a number, or what’s your preferred social media platform to stay and have a conversation?
[If he asks you the reason you came on the dating site, tell him…]
You: Actually, I broke up with my Ex a few months ago due to disagreements regarding kids. I want to give birth to kids, but I guess he wasn’t buying the idea, so we had to call it a quit. I am not yet married, but we were almost close to the altar. Lol.
Do you mind if we have this conversation on another platform?
Once you are outside the dating site, there are many things you can talk about.
When I asked Ijabo what and what he discusses with his male clients, he says;
There are lots of things you can discuss. The aim is just to keep him talking. As long as you can get him to talk, then that is good news for you.
Then we went ahead to discuss some ideas.
Ideas for your Male Client
- Talk about his Job [know whether he is rich].
- Discuss with him the plans he has for the future.
- Tell him about investment ideas (If you want to use the Gold investment format).
- Send me small gifts to win his Trust. [Click here to read more about trust format]
- Drop your formats and bill him.
All these shouldn’t happen at once; take your time – about two to three months.
This is quite typical for scammers because they make you fall in love, have wonderful conversations with you, then exploit you. So if you are a man, these are extreme signs you should watch out for.
Signs to Know A Fake Girl Online
Once you meet a girl on a dating platform and notice these signs, just quit the conversation immediately.
- She is forward – way forward than you
- Wants to know every bit of your life
- Is super interested in you immediately she meets you
- Wants to know even the tiniest detail of your life.
When I asked Ijabo how he chats with the female gender, he explained below.
How Do You Chat with a New Female Client?
Females, unlike their male counterparts, are pretty emotional than logical. When you see a female profile, you want to make a client, then treat her like a girl you want to toast. Like trying to make them fall in love using the Love Format.
1. Never start with just ‘Hello.’
Most guys do this, and it isn’t enjoyable. When I meet a new female client, I start by typing something like;
“Hello, my name is {the fraudster includes his name}, and I just came across your profile. I am a 6’3 young guy in his mid-twenties looking for friendship on this platform. I am single and currently work as the regional director of Chase Bank in the Midwest. I am intrigued by your profile and your pictures, and hopefully, we can have a conversation to see if we are a good fit for each other.
Please respond and let me know your thoughts.”
Once she responds, you are moving to the next stage of getting to know her better.
2. Know her job and Her plans.
If you want to know her, you need to know what she does and her plans.
‘So, what do you do for a living?”
“How is it going? Do you love what you do or just doing it for the short term”
“What are you interested in?”
“Is that your plan for the future?”
3. Know her Specs
When you chat with a new client, especially females, know that they have a lot of specifications they want in a man. Once you have some of those things she wants, you are looking qualified to be with her, which also increases the chances of her liking you.
“So, what type of men catches your attention?”
“I see some ladies talk about height and how romantic a guy is as criteria. Is that also a criterion for you?”
“So, what’s the deal-breaker when it comes to a relationship with a guy?”
4. Ask for her phone number
The dating site might block you any time soon, so you want to quickly preserve your client by moving them out of the site to either WhatsApp, Telegram, or Instagram.
From these, we can deduce some red flags when you are chatting with a male for the first time.
Signs Your New Male Chat Mate is Fake
Once you see any of these signs, you have to know that your friend isn’t all that a friend.
- He is slowly trying to know about your finances
- He is being excessively nice
- He is buying you things and painting your future together with his
- Your friend wants to know where you work and how much you earn
- He is asking you to send him Gift Cards [Amazon, iTunes, Walmart]
- He doesn’t want a video call.
Conclusion
When you are having a chat with anyone online, have in mind that some of them follow the rules of how to chat with a new client, and you are just another pawn on the line. So be careful, watchful, and observant with anyone you meet on the internet.
If you are already dating the person, read my investigation into the Dating Billing Format used by the same set of people online.
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